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Cheating on your lover/being cheated on
Tweet Topic Started: Sep 10 2016, 03:27 AM (1,790 Views)
breaker335	Sep 10 2016, 03:27 AM Post #1
Posts: 879 Group: Member Member #13,278 Joined: June 5, 2016 Gender Male Country United States	Never happened to me personally, but just wanted to hear other people's opinions. Is it worse for a specific gender? Is it expected of one gender to do it? Has it ever happened to you? (You don't have to answer this one.) If it did happen to you, how would you handle it? (Like cheat on him/her back, posting a video calling them out on it, give them another chance, etc.?) Edited by breaker335, Sep 10 2016, 03:30 AM.



+ Son-Goku	Sep 10 2016, 03:37 AM Post #2
孫悟空 Posts: 13,359 Group: Elite Member Member #12,886 Joined: January 24, 2016 Gender Male Country United States Favourite Anime DB/DBZ/DBS, Code Geass, Gintama, YYH, Death Note, and SAO. What Browser do you use? Google Chrome Favourite Manga Dragon Ball, Fairy Tail, and Naruto.	I'm not an expert on this kind of stuff so I'm not sure if it's worse for a specific gender or if one gender is more likely to do it then they other. I've been cheated on four times and that would be every single girlfriend I've ever dated. I'm not very good at picking them.
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breaker335	Sep 10 2016, 03:43 AM Post #3
Posts: 879 Group: Member Member #13,278 Joined: June 5, 2016 Gender Male Country United States	Son Goten Sep 10 2016, 03:37 AM I'm not an expert on this kind of stuff so I'm not sure if it's worse for a specific gender or if one gender is more likely to do it then they other. I've been cheated on four times and that would be every single girlfriend I've ever dated. I'm not very good at picking them. God damn, sucks to hear that man. :/



+ Sandy Shore	Sep 10 2016, 03:48 AM Post #4
Posts: 1,860 Group: Elite Member Member #12,337 Joined: May 18, 2015	breaker335 Sep 10 2016, 03:27 AM Is it worse for a specific gender? Men, because they can't be sure a baby's theirs. Quote: Is it expected of one gender to do it? Women, because they're more likely to lie about these things, and it's also not uncommon for them to get a man who can provide for them and their child to raise the child of a more sexually appealing man. Quote: Has it ever happened to you? (You don't have to answer this one.) This brings tears to my eyes. Quote: If it did happen to you, how would you handle it? (Like cheat on him/her back, posting a video calling them out on it, give them another chance, etc.?) I'd kill myself, obviously.



Wolf	Sep 10 2016, 05:30 AM Post #5
Shadow Realm > Posts: 5,538 Group: Street Fighter Member #6,410 Joined: June 27, 2011 Gender Not Specified Country South Africa Favourite Anime Berserk What Browser do you use? 18+ Favourite Manga Berserk	I cheated once in my life. My ex, who I dated for a total of 5 years, was the one I did it too. Our sophomore year of high school, we were going to two different schools. I thought it'd be cool to have two girlfriends at once. Well, it wasn't so cool. They found out about one another and became friends so, my life was hell for months. We ended up dating for another 3 years after though. After doing that and still being with her, I saw what it did to her mentally. It changed her and her perception of others. To this day, I regret doing it. I don't have feelings for her or anything but, it pains me to know I hurt someone that bad. All in all, if you cheat, you're a terrible person. I learned from my mistake and will never do it again but, it doesn't change the fact I did do it. If you're unhappy or want someone else, leave the person you are with. It's simple.
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+ QueenTD	Sep 10 2016, 06:38 AM Post #6
My Dear Melancholy, Posts: 4,480 Group: Elite Member Member #11,589 Joined: August 8, 2014 Gender Female Country United States	breaker335 Sep 10 2016, 03:27 AM Never happened to me personally, but just wanted to hear other people's opinions. Is it worse for a specific gender? Is it expected of one gender to do it? Has it ever happened to you? (You don't have to answer this one.) If it did happen to you, how would you handle it? (Like cheat on him/her back, posting a video calling them out on it, give them another chance, etc.?) I believe it's worst for males than females. Usually from my experience I've seen females get upset but can bounce back. Usually a month of(foul language warning) "n*as aint s*". But I've seen males world's end as if you legit shoot his heart. I believe it's expected for men to do it but I believe despite what music and movies and TV try to imply it. I think girls have equal chances but will probably do it more often. Happen to me recently during the summer. Hurted really bad due to the length we been together and what we went through together. Still getting over it but single prickle is not as that bad. Just lonley...I've never cheated. I
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Ding	Sep 10 2016, 06:49 AM Post #7
Posts: 671 Group: Duplicate Member #12,579 Joined: August 25, 2015 Gender Male Country Australia Favourite Anime DDZ obviously What Browser do you use? Chrome Favourite Manga Dragonball I suppose. Don't really read mango	Better to just break up and avoid monogamous relationships until ur ready/if ever
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Know'm Sayin'	Sep 10 2016, 07:38 AM Post #8
ZERO HOOTS GANG Posts: 248 Group: Member Member #12,785 Joined: November 27, 2015 Gender Male Country Korea Favourite Anime Full House What Browser do you use? Bowser Favourite Manga Billy and Mandy	In this current "hook up" culture it's almost inevitable to happen, unless you're ugly.
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+ QueenTD	Sep 10 2016, 03:35 PM Post #9
My Dear Melancholy, Posts: 4,480 Group: Elite Member Member #11,589 Joined: August 8, 2014 Gender Female Country United States	Know'm Sayin' Sep 10 2016, 07:38 AM In this current "hook up" culture it's almost inevitable to happen, unless you're ugly. Actually there is less sex and cheating going on right now than forever. Due to technology being the main focus and people too busy on their devices to go out and cheat or even have sex.
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breaker335	Sep 10 2016, 04:02 PM Post #10
Posts: 879 Group: Member Member #13,278 Joined: June 5, 2016 Gender Male Country United States	And getting rid of their sexual frustration through "other" methods.



~~Doggo Champion 2k17~~	Sep 10 2016, 05:31 PM Post #11
Posts: 7,931 Group: GTFO Member #6,380 Joined: June 20, 2011 Country United States Favourite Anime here comes What Browser do you use? o shit waddup! Favourite Manga dat boi	I've both cheated and been cheated on. If you're in a serious relationship and actually love someone, why cheat? If you're unhappy, there are other ways of working out the issue or solving your problem.



Wolf	Sep 10 2016, 06:08 PM Post #12
Shadow Realm > Posts: 5,538 Group: Street Fighter Member #6,410 Joined: June 27, 2011 Gender Not Specified Country South Africa Favourite Anime Berserk What Browser do you use? 18+ Favourite Manga Berserk	The answer to the why cheat question would be, because they find someone who makes them feel how their significant other did when they first met. Cheating usually occurs on down points of a relationship. Finding someone else who you like can make you want to cheat but, you also don't want to get up the one person you really like. Cheating is just being selfish really.
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* Mitas	Sep 10 2016, 06:29 PM Post #13
It truly was a Shawshank redemption Posts: 12,129 Group: Retired Staff Member #2,993 Joined: December 16, 2007 Gender Male Favourite Anime DBZ What Browser do you use? Google Chrome Favourite Manga DBZ, Full Metal Alchemist	Cheating falls into two categories for me. Well thought-out, prolonged affairs are bad. If you're going out of your way to cheat on your partner, or you're doing so on multiple occasions or for months/years at a time, then it's probably best for all involved if you just end the relationship. However, I feel a lot less strongly about 'one-off' cheating. Sure, it's emotionally painful for the person being cheated on (and, to a lesser extent, the person cheating, depending on how badly they feel about it, although I'm sure people aren't that sympathetic regarding that person because they shouldn't have cheated in the first place), but honestly, it's to be expected. We may be highly evolved animals, but we're still animals. We still have urges and we're still not in complete control of them. Add in alcohol and drugs to that, and it's honestly not surprising when that leads to someone cheating. Ideally it wouldn't happen, but I don't think that it makes somebody scummy, or that a relationship won't recover from it. I've both cheated and been cheated on, although I use the term loosely because neither of us had sex with another person, and it was in a long-distance relationship before either of us had met each other.
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~~Doggo Champion 2k17~~	Sep 10 2016, 09:54 PM Post #14
Posts: 7,931 Group: GTFO Member #6,380 Joined: June 20, 2011 Country United States Favourite Anime here comes What Browser do you use? o shit waddup! Favourite Manga dat boi	Mitas, while I would agree to an extent, I would never be able to forgive someone for cheating because (to me) I just can't understand or sympathize with it. It strikes me as extremely weak and immature. That stems from my own relatively low sex drive/borderline asexual-ness, so that's probably unfair of me, but that's just how I feel. It devastates me too much to think that the person I'm with can't control their base urges for the sake of love the way that I can (mostly because I rarely feel those urges to begin with, but hey). Now, if my partner were to come to me and tell me how they felt, or confess to me that they felt like they might cheat, I may be inclined to suggest a short-term breakup. I'm an understanding person as long as I'm not lied to and betrayed.



+ Havoc_Wreaker	Sep 11 2016, 02:34 AM Post #15
Popcorn Posts: 9,904 Group: Elite Member Member #5,870 Joined: March 19, 2011 Gender Other Country Canada	OFG Sep 10 2016, 05:31 PM I've both cheated and been cheated on. If you're in a serious relationship and actually love someone, why cheat? If you're unhappy, there are other ways of working out the issue or solving your problem. what the doctor who are you talking about? youve never loved before? were you not able to solve your own problem? im so lost...



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